Have you ever seen a ridiculously attractive young lady on social media that you can't go another day without having speaking to?? OF COURSE! We all have! Social media has opened our eyes to the wonders of the world far beyond out grasp. Sometimes, the only way to get in contact is through a Direct Message or DM.
Well today you're in for a treat. I'm about to kick some free knowledge that has been thoroughly tested and proven to produce results! Gather round men, I present to you...
the Survival Guide to A Successful DM Dive!
First thing first, patience is the key. You don't want to just pop in a DM without warning. Take time to follow her for a few weeks & like her pics. It can sometime help to let her post a few pics before you double tap them. Then, like them all at once during off hours. This way, she definitely sees you like what you see. Also, keep liking sprees to a minimum. Like between 4 - 6 pics at a time. Try to stay within 21 weeks or 4 thumb swipes. After that you run the risk of coming off as creepy. Do this no more than 3 times total. If she doesn't respond with some activity of her own, move on.
- Cover your camera and take a pic. This will result in just a black picture of nothing at all. It's quick and easy & you can get straight to the point.
- Go through her pics. Choose your favorite pic of her and send that one. It takes a little time & thought. We all know women love that kinda stuff.
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On the other hand, if you are curved, and there are various degrees of curve, you MUST handle this loss with honor! Remember, it's just a DM. The world isn't over. the worst thing a man can do is get sensitive in a direct message. You are just asking for public ridicule. Always keep it calm, cool, and in control. There are many other fish in the sea, and the internet is 1 big ass sea! When things don't go your way, wish her the best & move on to the next.
*In either situation, all communication is deleted after an end point is reached.